How to Plan a Celebration of Life
Organize a beautiful and meaningful event to honor the memory of your loved ones.
Why it's important to host a Celebration of Life for my loved ones
Hosting a Celebration of Life for your loved ones is important as it allows you to honor their life and legacy in a meaningful way. It also provides an opportunity for family and friends to come together to support one another and share memories of your loved one. Celebrating their life can help bring closure and healing during a difficult time and allow you to focus on their positive memories and impact on others.
Where to Start a Life Celebration Event
To plan a celebration of life, consider the preferences and personality of the person being celebrated and determine what type of even can be the best option for your needs, time, expectations, and budget.
It's really a process of asking–and answering–questions. Sit down with other family members, at least once—but maybe even more than once—to explore the celebration of life ideas which arise from answering these questions:
Who will be invited?
The number of guests define the where, when, and how of your celebration of life. Write down the names of everyone you think would want to be there and then set it aside. You can add new names to the list as you go along.
Where and when should take place?
Here's where your imagination is tempered by any scheduling or travel-related issues facing those who will be invited. Be sure to check in with out-of-town relatives and friends about their situation before settling on these critical details.
Who will orchestrate or conduct it?
If your loved one was religious, you may opt to have their pastor or church minister perform these tasks. However, many families today hire a non-denominational celebrant to oversee the celebration of life.
Who wishes to speak at it?
Many times family members or friends will be very direct about their desire to make a short presentation at the celebration of life; other times you need to come out and ask folks if they would be willing to publicly share their thoughts and feelings. Either way, you'll want to select those people who have shared a close relationship with the deceased and have something meaningful to contribute.
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What food or beverages should be served?
What you serve may depend on the theme of your celebration of life, or may be based on your loved one's favorite dishes. It's entirely up to you; we've even seen "pot luck" celebrations of life where guests actually sign up to bring select foods and beverages.
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What readings and music should you include?
Music is an integral part of life for many people, and a celebration of life is the perfect event in which to showcase the meaningful music of your loved one's life. But, if your loved one didn't appreciate music (and lots of folks don’t), it may be more appropriate to read chosen spiritual selections, or excerpts from literature.
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What details of your loved one's life do you want to share with guests?
Not every biographical detail needs to be highlighted; rather you're trying to capture their essence by telling revealing anecdotes or stories. Sometimes you can reveal their character by detailing one short moment in their life experience.
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What decorations will you have or want?
Many families create a tribute video and use it as the centerpiece of the event. Others choose to use a memory table of photographs and other memorabilia instead.
Activities for a Celebration of Life
We've heard some exciting celebration-of-life ideas over the years. This question involves thinking about what your loved one liked most about their life and gives everyone a remarkable space to share memories, laugh, and even cry together. Click below to read our article about the best ideas.
Talk to Our Funeral Directors About Celebration of Life
As we've said, we've got the experience which could make planning a celebration-of-life easier for you and your family. Don't hesitate to reach out. Let's talk about your loved one's life; share some stories with us. We're confident that, together, we can come up with the perfect celebration of life event to suit your needs and expectations.