Denise Self

Denise Ann Self (White)

Thursday, March 31st, 1955 - Tuesday, October 27th, 2020
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Denise Ann Self, age 65, of Bonner Springs, Kansas passed away on Tuesday, Oct. 27, 2020 while surrounded by her loving family at her home. Visitation will be 5-6pm followed by a Memorial Service at 6pm both Monday, Nov. 2nd, at the Elm Grove Baptist Church, 15774 Linwood Rd, Bonner Springs, KS. In lieu of flowers the family suggests memorial contributions in Denise’s name to Encompass Health – Hospice, 14833 W. 95th St. Lenexa, KS. 66215.

Denise was born on March 31, 1955 in Kansas City, Missouri and was one of four children born to Bill & Betty (Askins) White. She grew up and attended schools including Van Horn High School in Independence, Missouri. Denise had worked the last 15 years at the Bonner Springs Wal-Mart, retiring one month ago. Denise loved to travel, especially with her lifelong best friend Shelly Beilman to Las Vegas, NV. In recent years, Denise loved to spend time with her children and grandchildren. She was preceded in death by her father, one sister Sharon Taylor, one brother Thomas William White, II “Tommy”, and her best friend Shelly Beilman. Survivors include her two children: Brandon Reed and his wife Kara of Bonner Springs, KS., and Jacquee Penner and her husband Jeff of Tonganoxie, KS. Her mother Betty White, and one sister Christy Cartwright, both of Raytown, MO. Nine grandchildren: Alli, Austin, Justin, Cora, Mika, Avery, Rylie, Ady and Aaron.
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Service Details

  • Visitation

    Monday, November 2nd, 2020 | 5:00pm - 6:00pm
    Monday, November 2nd, 2020 5:00pm - 6:00pm
    Elm Grove Baptist Church
    15774 Linwood Road
    Get Directions: View Map | Text | Email
  • Service

    Monday, November 2nd, 2020 | 6:00pm
    Monday, November 2nd, 2020 6:00pm
    Elm Grove Baptist Church
    15774 Linwood Road
    Get Directions: View Map | Text | Email

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Keller Family

Posted at 01:38pm
With love and remembrance of Denise Self.
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Karen Sims (Perkins)

Posted at 11:24pm
Aunt Betty, Christy, and Denise's family - I am heartbroken to learn that Denise passed away so suddenly and unexpectedly. I have fond memories of the times we were all together as kids when I would stay at Grandma/Grandpa White's house which was next door to yours in Independence. I am so sorry for your loss. Love you, Karen

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